Ephesians 4:25-32. "Therefore each of you must put off falsehood
and speak truthfully to his neighbor, for we re all members of
one body. In your anger do not sin [Psalm 4:4]. Do not let the
sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil
a foothold. He who has been stealing must steal no longer, but
must work, doing something useful with his own hands, that he
may have something to share with those in need.
Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only
what is helpful for building others up according to their needs,
that it may benefit those who listen. And do not grieve the Holy
Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption.
Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander,
along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to
one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave
Ephesians 5:4. "Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or
coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving."
First, the capacity to which we experience chapters 1 through
3 of Ephesians is directly related to the way we apply chapters
4 through 6 of this same book. God has given us the power through
his Holy Spirit to renew our minds--becoming transformed by the
mind of Christ. Now we see in these verses that the new man also
equates to having a new mouth. James 3:2-12. "We all stumble in
many ways. If anyone is never at fault in what he says, he is
a perfect man, able to keep his whole body in check. When we put
bits into the mouths of horses to make them obey us, we can turn
the whole animal. Or take ships as an example. Although they are
so large and are driven by strong winds, they are steered by a
very small rudder wherever the pilot wants to go. Likewise the
tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts.
Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark.
The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of
the body. It corrupts the whole person, sets the whole course
of his life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell.
All kinds of animals, birds, reptiles and creatures of the sea
are being tamed and have been tamed by man, but no man can tame
the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With
the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse
men, who have been made in God's likeness. Out of the same mouth
come praise and cursing. My brothers, this should not be. Can
both fresh water and salt water flow from the same spring? My
brothers, can a fig tree bear olives, or a grapevine bear figs?
Neither can a salt spring produce fresh water."
In Christ you have the power to control your mind, which controls
your tongue. These Scriptures talk about putting off the old man'
s speech. Put off lying. A lie is a statement which is contrary
to the facts. Revelation 22:14-15,
"Blessed are those who do His commandments, that they may have
the right to the tree of life, and may enter through the gates
of the city. But outside are dogs and sorcerers and sexually immoral
and murderers and idolaters, and whoever loves and practices a
The lake of fire is reserved for liars. A lying tongue defiles
you. Liars are never respected. As a Christian you're never excused
for lying. God is truth, therefore we must be truth, honest. Lying
is so easy. David's prayer ought to be our prayer. Psalm 141:3. "Set
a guard over my mouth, O Lord; keep watch over the door of my
lips." Paul says we should have God guard our mouths. David says
it. Tongue control doesn't come without heart and mind control.
The victory is in our spirit coupled to God's Holy Spirit. We
can do it in the Spirit. "Let no corrupt word come out of your
mouth" Paul says. The word corrupt comes from the Greek
word denoting rotting fruit. Paul is saying that we should stop
being "garbage mouths!" If there is trash coming out of your mouth
that means there's trash inside your mind.
Verse 29, "Do not let any unwholesome [k.Js corrupt] talk come
out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others
up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen." Instead
of speaking trash our words should build up and edify others--building
them up. When you see the short-fallings of others you still speak
things to build them up, not tear them down. What's your speech
Verse 31, "Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling
and slander, along with every form of malice." The new King
James has it, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and
evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice." Clamor
is an outcry. Isaiah 58:1-5. "Shout aloud, do not hold back. Raise
your voice like a trumpet. Declare to my people their rebellion
and to the house of Jacob their sins. For day after day they seek
me out; they seem eager to know my ways, as if they were a nation
that does what is right and has not forsaken the commands of God.
They ask me for just decisions and seem eager for God to come
to them. 'Why have we fasted,' they say, 'and you have not seen
it? Why have we humbled ourselves, and you have not noticed?'
Yet on the day of your fasting, you do as you please and exploit
all your workers. Your fasting ends in quarreling and strife,
and in striking each other with wicked fists. You cannot fast
as you do today and expect your voice to be heard on high. Is
this the kind of fast I have chosen, only a day for a man to humble
himself? Is it only for bowing one's head like a reed and for
lying on sackcloth and ashes? Is that what you call a fast, a
day acceptable to the Lord?"
They delight in going to temple, fasting--but God says it's in
vain. What God highlights is their mouths--quarreling and strife.
When evil speaking starts in a church the Holy Spirit moves out.
It will hinder revival individually and as a church. Speaking
evil, talking behind others' back, God hates. But we have great
hope, as God points out in verses 9-12 of Isaiah 58. "Pointing
the finger" points to evil speaking. This will be our reward from
God for gracious speaking, speech that doesn't tear down others.
Evil Speaking of others is a revival killer. What is God's
reward for speaking what is right, not evil? Isaiah 58:9-12.
"Then you will call, and the Lord will answer; you will cry for
help, and he will say: Here am I. If you do away with the yoke
of oppression, with the pointing finger and malicious talk, and
if your spend yourselves in behalf of the hungry and satisfy the
needs of the oppressed, then your light will rise in the darkness,
and your night will become like the noonday. The Lord will guide
you always; he will satisfy your needs in a sun-scorched land
and will strengthen your frame. You will be like a well-watered
garden, like a spring whose waters never fail. Your people will
rebuild the ancient ruins and will raise up the age-old foundations;
you will be called the Repairer of Broken Walls, Restorer of Streets
Going further on this subject, Ephesians 5:4 says no foolish talking
should come from us. A godly person is usually of few words. Proverbs
has many teachings about the tongue and how we should be of few
words. Look them up and do a study on them. Be filled with the
Spirit. The last item Paul mentions is coarse jesting. Coarse
jesting goes beyond mere wit. Intelligence and wit go together.
But the coarse edge and put-down shouldn't be a part of our wit.
Speak thankfulness. When you have a guarded mouth, you have a
controlled life. James 1:26-27 give the plus and minus of this
whole subject. James 1:26-27. "If anyone considers himself religious
and yet does not keep a tight rein on his tongue, he deceives
himself and his religion is worthless. Religion that God our Father
accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and
widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted
by the world."