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1st John 5:16-17
Intercessory Prayer
“If any man see his brother sin a sin which is not unto death, he shall ask, and he shall give him life
for them that sin not unto death. There
is a sin unto death: I
do not say that he shall pray for it. All
unrighteousness is sin: and there is a sin not unto death.”
“1st John
chapter 5. Let’s
say a word of prayer again, as we get to this point in the service. ‘Lord,
thank you, that we once more are able to partake in the truth of
your Word. Of course
in a time like today, we need to hear the truth. You
have wonderful things to say to us. In
Christ there are so many blessings, so much power. I think of what Paul says to the church
in Ephesus, that we would know that exceedingly great power towards
us that believe, the same power that raised Jesus Christ from the
dead. So Lord, so much that we have as born-again
believers. When we
study your Word again this morning, I ask as we do Holy Spirit
that you’d illuminate the truths and give us light, and speak
to our hearts. And
as we study these things, may we leave with a greater conviction
in our own hearts about what the truth is that is here. But also a greater desire to go and do
the very things that you tell us to do. And
I ask Holy Spirit that you’d be upon all of us, and yet upon
myself as we go through your Word, in Jesus name, Amen.’
I’d
like to begin with a story, there’s a story that D.L. Moody
shares. “I remember when preaching on one
occasion to an immense audience in the Agricultural Hall in London. A father and mother were in great distress
about their absent son, who had given up God’s ways and had
wandered from his father’s home to the wild bush of Australia. These
poor parents asked the united prayers of that vast congregation
for their son. And
I suppose fully twenty-thousand prayers rose to the Mercy Seat. That
very hour those prayers ascended from the audience in London. That young man was riding through the
Australian bush to town, a days ride from his camp. Something caused him to think of his home
and his parents, and as he sat in his saddle the Spirit of the
Lord descended upon him, and he was convicted of sin. Dismounting,
he knelt down by his horse’s side and prayed to God for forgiveness,
and in a little while he was assured of conversion. When he reached the town he wrote the
good news to his delighted mother, and asked if they would receive
him at home. The answer flashed along the cable beneath
the ocean, ‘Come home at once.’’ I
like to start with that story because it gives a good picture of
the truth that I see today that we’re going to look at here
in 1st John, this truth about prayer. It’s
a powerful truth. In
fact, I think as we look at what John says here, potentially it
could even change our view of prayer, especially intercessory prayer,
that is even more importantly as he says prayer for a brother and
sister in Christ. As
we saw last week, we looked at the verses 14 and 15 in this Epistle,
John had a lot to say about prayer. In
fact, he told us about effective prayer. That
is, that we can actually pray, and as we pray, of course he’s
encouraging us, that we would pray and receive the things that
we asked for. So he talks about effective prayer, getting
what you ask for in prayer. Of
course that’s a cure to those thoughts of, you know, ‘I
don’t think that God hears prayer’, or the thoughts
that ‘Does prayer even work?’ John gives us an exhortation here that
we would understand that prayer is actually very powerful. And he wants us to know as born-again
believers that we can actually be praying in a way that’s
it so effective, that we receive the things that we ask for. Now
what was the insight last week that he gave to us? As you remember, he said that effective
prayer, first of all includes boldness,
that is a confidence in coming before the Lord. Secondly
it includes direct access,
meaning that there’s one Mediator between God and man [and
that is the God-man, Jesus Christ, God the Son], we can go directly
to God through Jesus Christ. And
most importantly, the real bulk of what he said in verses 14 and
15, is effective prayer will include praying with God’s heart and will. So,
great truth, and incredible truth to take hold of. John
says that there’s this awesome weapon, this incredible power
that we have at our disposal, that we can pray, we can pray with
boldness and confidence towards God, we can pray in the Spirit,
being led in the Spirit, asking God just to direct, lead us in
this prayer, and praying according to his will, and as we do that,
we can have 100-percent assurance that we will receive the things
that we ask for. So,
intercessory prayer, he makes a great statement with that last
week, and then this week he brings us especially to the subject
of intercessory prayer. And I think verse 16 and 17, especially
verse 16 could be one of the best verses, greatest verses--I mean
all the Bible verses are great, but this verse just seems to stand
out to me on the subject of intercessory prayer.
So, verses
16-17, “If anyone sees his brother sinning a sin which
does not lead to death, he will ask, and he will give him life
for those who commit sin not leading to death. There is sin leading to death. I do not say that he should pray about
that. All unrighteousness
is sin. And there is sin not leading to death.” So, remember we had noted last week,
these are probably the last written words of the apostle John. He was a great man, so great men often
have great things to say, and of course, the final things they
say really want to make some tremendous points. And
we’re at the end of his letter, and in fact this is probably
a post-script, just a little PS at the end. And
he’s got some great things to say to us here. Now
with his writing style, here again is one of those statements
that can be a bit challenging to interpret. You’re
probably looking at it going ‘What in the world does he
mean here? What is
he saying?’ There
are some peculiar statements that catch your eye in these verses
here, and leave you wondering, maybe with such questions as, ‘What
does he mean by a sin leading to death?’ What does
he mean by that? ‘Why
are we not to pray for somebody whose committed such a sin?’ What
is he saying?
When we pray for a struggling brother
or sister, God will respond
Now before we really
delve into it all, I’d like to say that he makes such a wonderful
point here. Sometimes it’s overlooked, sometimes
you miss the point because your eyes catch these other phrases,
and you get wondering about that. In
fact, I would admit to you that in years past, I’ve read,
and I’ve even taught 1st John, I’ve always
focused on the part that just kind of catches your eye, and you’re
like ‘What is he saying?’ And
then I’ve missed, here’s an incredible truth here in
these verses. There’s an incredible truth, and
I’ve kind of missed the whole point. I
think we have a tendency to do that, and can just kind of meditate
on another part and miss a beautiful truth. But
I’ve had two weeks to think about this verse, and as I’ve
been thinking about it, I’ve been like ‘Wow! That
is really cool what he’s saying there. That
is a tremendous exhortation. The
thrust of what he’s saying is very significant, and he is
saying as you see there, when you and I pray, we pray boldly, we pray
led in the Spirit, we pray according to the will of God, when we pray and lift up a struggling
brother or sister, God will respond to that prayer. God will indeed respond. It’s not even a question, the way
he writes it there. When
I pray for somebody who’s struggling, a Christian, when I
pray and ask God to lead me in the Spirit, when I pray, I can be
absolutely sure that God is going to respond. He says it in that way. In fact he uses the words, he says “God will give him life”,
God will give that person life. Just
like in the story with D.L. Moody, and that’s why I started
with that story. There’s a guy who’s struggling,
maybe he was a believer, he left the Lord, seemed to leave the
ways of the Lord. The way it’s phrased in that story,
maybe he’s a believer, maybe he’s not, but either way
I think the picture is what’s said here. This
church, 20,000, mom and dad concerned for a son, they lift up prayers. As
they are praying, at that very moment, this man is on the other
side of the globe, they were in England, he’s in Australia,
as they pray at that very moment, he doesn’t know why, but
starts thinking about his parents. And as he starts to think about his parents,
suddenly there’s a conviction of sin upon his heart so great
that he actually gets off his horse and he gets down on his knees,
and he turns his life over to God and gets right with God. They
prayed, that happened at the very instant. I
think that’s a picture exactly of what John is saying here
in these verses. Now what stands out again, in this verse
to me, especially now as he’s so matter of fact about it,
it’s as if it’s guaranteed, if I pray in this way,
he will give life, he says. It’s like it’s guaranteed. He doesn’t say he may get life, he doesn’t say he
might give life, he doesn’t say that could give life, he
says if I pray, God will give
him life, God will give him life. Just
guaranteed, matter of fact, this is the way it works. So that then says to me that this is a
tremendous promise of the Lord. God
will do these things if I pray. Man,
that’s a powerful exhortation to me as a Christian, that’s
a powerful exhortation to the Church. I
think these verses as you meditate upon them, you can even change
the attitude of the congregation from one of maybe judging or criticism
to one of love, compassion, hope and power. Well,
let’s start to dissect these verses here so we get the whole
sense of it.
He
says, “if anyone”, so anybody, you or I, that’s
pretty clear. “If anybody”. Now
the word “if” is the objective suppositional conjunction,
the Greek word ean, and
that word, the word the way it’s stated there, “if”,
it means that it’s not like a figment of somebody’s
imagination, that this is just like maybe a possibility, it’s
a sense that this is a reality. “If”
meaning these things do happen. Meaning,
you’re going to live the Christian life, and at times you’re
going to see a brother or sister that’s in the Lord, that’s
in the Church, that is struggling in one way or another in their
walk with God, and struggling with sin. So he says “If”. Now if that’s
the case, he says this is the case for you, this is the reality
as a Christian, this at times is going to happen. So
then what he follows with is very important for me to understand. I’m
not to pass judgment on a brother, I’m not to stand idly
by either, I’m not just to be indifferent. But
rather, there’s something that I need to do in those cases---it just says, I need to pray. I need to pray and God will give him life. Paul told the church in Galatia, he said, “bear
one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.” And that’s the sense of this verse. When I see a brother or sister that’s
struggling, I have a responsibility, and that responsibility especially
includes prayer. If
anyone, you and I, anybody, one of us sees, the Greek verb here, sees is the Greek word ide [look
up spelling in Strongs], and is related to the Greek verb oeda, which we have noted a lot when he says know, and through this Epistle he either says ginosko or oeda, ginosko
meaning an experiential knowledge, oeda is to perceive intuitively. The word for sees here is rooted, is from that word, related to that word. So John is referring to having an intuitive
knowledge of sin in the life of a believer. It
isn’t so much that there’s an outward visible life
of sin, they’re could be, but especially just you have a
sense, I perceive this brother’s struggling. I
perceive that this sister is struggling. That’s
what he’s stated. It
would include more than just a visible sin, you just know that
something’s not right with that believer in the church. So,
“If anyone sees his brother”, the word brother there
I believe and most commentators would say means a believer, or
at least somebody that would appear to be a believer. It
means a believer. So
what follows then is focused on another Christian [or Messianic
Jewish brother]. “If anyone sees his brother sinning
a sin”, you can tell just by the way that’s written,
that is in the continuous sense, his committed a sin, so he’s
still in the state of sin, his continuing in that sin, maybe it
was a onetime act, but he’s still kind of in the heart of
it, in the direction of it, he’s continuing in the sin. And now for the challenging part. That was easy. “If anyone sees his brother sinning
a sin which does not lead to death.” Now what does he mean by that? Goes on a little bit later and says “there
is sin leading to death.” I
don’t know about you, I’d like to know what that sin
is. You know what I’m
saying? What is he
saying? Sin not leading
to death, there is sin leading to death, what does he mean?
What is “a sin leading to
death”?, 1st view
What
is a sin that leads to death? Well
there are two main views. If
you’ve studied this, maybe you have a sense of where you
stand, but there are two main views about that, this sin that leads
to death. The first view involves a Christian who’s
living in habitual sin. And
the death then involves, in this first view, physical death as
the eventual outcome. So somebody, a Christian is living in
a sin that leads to death. There
is one view that that sin means that they’ve committed a
sin that they’re going to die, meaning God is going to take
their life. We see
examples of that in the New Testament. So people who have that view would refer
to these examples. One
is Ananias and Sapphira in Acts chapter 5. Right? In the early Church. Appear to be believers, we kind of have
that sense when we read it. They
do something, they lie, they sin against the Holy Spirit, they
disgrace God and right there at the door, boom, and a little bit
later, boom, they both fall dead. Right? And fear kind of goes throughout the early
Church. Also in Paul’s
first letter to the Church in Corinth, chapter 11, Paul writes
that because of the horrific attitude of this church, some of them
have towards the communion table [which the early Church was observing
once a year on Passover eve, the 13th/14th Nisan],
they were approaching it in such a defiling way, he said ‘Some
of you who are sick, and some of you have even fallen asleep, and
he uses the word, meaning they’ve died. That
there’s some in the church in Corinth that have actually
died because of the way, in a sense they’ve blasphemed the
communion table. They’ve
not really prepared their hearts right and approached it in the
right way. There’s
also those verses in Hebrews chapter 12, verses 8 and 9, which
maybe alludes to this type of, you know, God taking a believer’s
life because of sin. “But if you are without chastening,
of which all have become partakers, then you are illegitimate and
not sons. Furthermore, we have had human fathers
who corrected us, and we paid them respect. Shall
we not much more readily be in subjection to the Father of spirits and
live” he says. And some would say that meaning if he’s
correcting us, we want to respond so that we will live….Meaning,
if we continue in that direction he would really have to correct
us which would include taking our life. Well,
in these cases where God appears to at times end the life of a
believer, call him home, call him home early, it seems to be often
because in one way or another they’re disgracing God, they’re
being such a horrific witness that God doesn’t want that
to continue. God has
to make a statement and he has to judge because of what has happened. Now some have suggested when these cases
happen, that it’s really an act of benevolence of God, meaning
that God doesn’t want that sin to continue in the Church,
so he has to make a strong statement like he did with Ananias and
Sapphira, or maybe it’s a sense of grace that this person
has got themselves into such a mess, and they’re on such
a road of destruction that God doesn’t want them to continue
to reap all that’s going to come from that. So
in his grace he kind of takes him out of the picture. Now
I know in my life, I’ve made a deal with the Lord. If I ever get on one of these slippery
slopes, and I’m going to end up being put on a shelf, you
just take me man, I’m not even going to try to argue, just
take me out early, you know, I can understand, that could be gracious
act on the part of the Lord. So, there’s this first view.
“sin leading to death”,
2nd view
There’s a second
view. And that is, this involves somebody who
was a brother or should I say appears to be to have been a brother
[in Christ], but now very clearly appears to not be a brother. Meaning,
they appear to be a Christian [or Messianic Jewish believer], and
now it’s clearly discernable that they’re not a Christian. So in this case, this sin that has been
committed is a sin that leads to spiritual death. And the sin is that of apostasy, apostasy. The
act of denying Jesus Christ as God the Son, God manifested in the
flesh. So in this case, the word for brother
there, would be somebody who’s a false brother [as Ananias
and Sapphira may have been, they may have been false brethren],
somebody that John noted earlier. Remember, John has talked about people
like that. Earlier
he said in chapter 2, “They went out from us, but they were
not of us. For if they had been of us, they would
have continued with us. But
they went out that they might be made manifest that none of them
were of us.” So he says there were these guys that
were with us, and then they left. They
were clearly part of the Church, they professed certain things,
but they’ve left the Church and now they profess a completely
different gospel. They don’t even believe in the same
Jesus we do anymore. And
that would be this sin of apostasy. Now
that’s the second view that this sin leading to death means
that somebody’s committed the sin of apostasy. The
Bible says that apostasy is an unforgivable sin. Hebrews
chapter 6, verses 4 to 6, “For it is impossible for those
who were once enlightened and have tasted the heavenly gift and
have become partakers of the Holy Spirit and have tasted the good
Word of God and the powers of the age to come, if they fall away,
to renew them again to repentance, since they crucify again for
themselves the Son of God and put him to an open shame.” You know, that little passage in Hebrews,
people take it differently, and say it is impossible for somebody
to walk away from the Lord, because of the way it’s worded,
or they say that if you ever did, man, there would be no other
way to get back, because that’s what he’s saying. Or
they would say it’s somebody that tasted, meaning they were
in the Church, they learned all that there is to learn, they understood
it, they saw it for what it was, but yet they still decided to
walk away from it, never really were completely born-again, never
really asked Christ into their heart, but they got really close,
and then they decided to walk away from it. That
I think more than anything is the heart of Hebrews 6. Well, that would be a sin that the Bible
would say is unforgivable, it’s blasphemy of the Holy Spirit. Jesus said in Matthew chapter 3, verse
29,
“But he who blasphemes against the Holy Spirit never has
forgiveness, but is subject to eternal condemnation.” So,
with that, I would understand then why John would then say ‘you
don’t need to pray about that, you don’t need to pray
about that, there’s apostasy, they’ve turned away from
the Lord, they’re not interested, they’ve so hardened
their heart.’ Now,
which direction do I go in? I
take the second one. I personally believe that is what John
is saying. I do believe
that at times God also will take a believer physically and take
him out of the earth because of sin. I
do believe that. I believe that you see it in the New Testament. I
certainly think that’s a possibility, that somebody could
do such a sin that God would say, ‘Man, I need to take that
guy out of the picture.’ So
I believe that. But
I think here that he’s especially referring to that of apostasy,
those that have gotten close, appeared they were Christians, and
then walked away from the Lord. You know, if you consider all that John
has said thus far, he said that born-again believers will not continue
in sin, they will not continue in sin. So
to say that this brother here is a born-again believer, then they’re
not going to continue in sin, so it’s tough for them to get
to the point of them committing a sin that’s going to lead
to death as far as spiritual death. So I think that with that, also John said
earlier there are many anti-christs, 1st John chapter
4, people who confess a different Jesus. And
they confess to know the Lord, but as they describe and say who
that Jesus is, he’s not God the Son, he’s not God that
came in the flesh, it’s a different Jesus. So
it’s apostasy. And that’s what I believe he’s
referring to. So kind
of put it all together. John is saying ‘I have a responsibility
to pray for a Christian, a brother, sister, who is sinning, who’s
without a doubt born-again, believes in the real Jesus, I have
a responsibility if they are struggling in sin to pray for them.’ But
when they are people that were once part of the Church, knowing,
learning and understanding all that the Bible says about Jesus,
but who now deny Jesus Christ, as Jesus the Christ, the Son of
God, those that refuse to believe that he came as God in the flesh,
then they have committed the sin that leads to death. And
John says that you don’t need to pray for somebody like that. Their
hearts are so hard, they’ve denied the Gospel, they’ve
hardened their hearts. They
saw the light, they shut off their hearts towards it, they have
blasphemed the Holy Spirit. In fact, this is like what God says to
the prophet Jeremiah. Jeremiah
chapter 7, verse 16, “Therefore do not pray for this people
nor lift up a cry or a prayer for them, nor make intercession to
me, for I will not hear you.” God says, ‘Don’t even pray
for them’ he says to Jeremiah, because of the hardness of
the hearts of the people in Israel at that time. So
if that takes place. Now I should note that if somebody is denying
the Lord, and it’s because of ignorance, that’s a little
bit different. That’s
somebody I should share the Gospel with, and I should pray for
them, and they need to just understand the Gospel. But he’s saying somebody that would
know the Gospel, knows the whole deal, and yet denies it. Somebody’s who’s in the Church
and walked away from it.
The main focus of what John is
saying—intercessory prayer
Now, with that, the
main focus of what John is saying, and that’s what we need
to walk away with this morning, when a brother is in sin, a sin
that doesn’t lead to death, and I would think by far, the
sins that we would commit, then John exhorts us to pray. He says “He will ask”, that
word in the Greek for “ask”, it means literally “to
beg”, “to crave”, “to desire”. There’s a passion in that word. It could also be rendered “beseech”. That word “beseech” means “passionately
crying out to God.” There’s
a sense of fervency in that prayer. When
a brother or sister is sinning, somebody in the church, a Christian
[or Messianic Jewish believer in Jesus, Yeshua], I shouldn’t
point my nose up at him, I shouldn’t judge him, I shouldn’t
be critical, I shouldn’t condemn him. I shouldn’t look the other way either. I shouldn’t be indifferent. But my heart should have the heart of
God, and that is Agape love. I
should be burdened for them, so burdened that I with great desire
come before God, passionately, before his throne, and I intercede
for them. That’s
what he’s saying here. I
should come confidently, I should come boldly, asking the Holy
Spirit to lead me, asking according to the will of God. And
wonderfully, as John says, “God
will give that person life.” God
will indeed respond. Now
what does John mean by “life”---“God
will give him life”? That’s another question we should
try to answer. John
uses in his Epistle three different words for the word “life”. We
have the word “life” in English, but there are multiple
Greek words. He uses the three main ones. That is the Greek word “Zoe”, “Bios” and “Suke”. This
word here is the word “Zoe”
[Strongs # 2222, dzoay; from 2198 (to live, life); life. (lit. or fig.):
life(time)….] What
does Zoe mean? Generally in the New Testament Zoe is referring to spiritual life. It’s the spiritual sense of the
word, generally. [Strong’s
doesn’t go that deep into how the Greek was used by the New
Testament writers, but only gives the exact Greek meaning, and
not what the writers were using specific Greek words to convey.] That
principle of life, life in the absolute sense, life as God has
life, the life which the Father has in himself. It’s
a life that I have been alienated from if I’m in sin and
I don’t have Christ, it’s that life I’ve been
separated from because of the consequence of ‘the fall”,
Ephesians chapter 4, verse 18. It’s
the life that I become a partaker in when I put my faith in Jesus
Christ, that is the word zoe. There are times, though, where zoe can in the New Testament, Acts chapter
17, verse 25, be used to refer to just the life that’s common
to animals and common to men by nature. It
also can refer to the duration of life. But
generally it is used in the spiritual sense, and it’s interesting
to me, John uses the word zoe many
times. In fact, verse
1, verse 2, verse 25 of chapter 2, verse 14 of chapter 3, verse
15 of chapter 3, verse 11 of chapter 5, verse 12, verse 13, verse
16, and verse 20. He uses the word zoe many times, and every time it’s clear, and if you’re
wondering here, it’s spiritual life, like eternal life, every
time it’s zoe. Or
the life that we have
in Christ, it’s zoe. Every
time he uses that word. Now bios he
also uses, and that has basically three types of meaning. It
either means the period or duration of life, or the time pasts
of our life, it also can mean the manner of life in regards to
moral conduct or the means of life, livelihood, maintenance, living,
that type of thing. John uses that word only once in verse
16 of chapter 2, very clearly he’s meaning ‘the manner
of life’, not spiritual life. Suke is the word we often use for the word soul, you know, heart, mind, and soul. It denotes life
in two main ways, that is the breath of life, the natural life,
which like the natural word for life, or the word soul, the seat
of the personality. John uses that word twice in verse 16. Clearly there he referring to the natural
life. I say all of
that because people will debate, I was even with a pastor this
week, and we were looking into it in a Greek Bible, he could read
Greek, so we were going through this, and it seems to me very clearly
he’s referring to spiritual
life. And all the
more I take the second view, he’s referring to spiritual
life. That when you
pray for a believer who’s struggling, it’s not physical life, God will give him spiritual life, like in the story there
I started with, D.L. Moody. By
the grace of God he will give him life, that is, the life we receive
in Christ, that is abundant life, that is eternal life, that is
all that goes with spiritual life. So,
with all that, then I think we can agree it is vital for you and
I, vital for a congregation that claims Christ, it is vital for
us to be in prayer for one another. You know I’ve made it a habit to
try to pray for everybody in the church. Sometimes
I don’t know names, and sometimes I have to ask the Lord
to lead me. I’ve got names and I try to keep
track of names, but if I don’t know names I just kind of
think a little bit, ‘Yeah, there’s a face I see now
and then out in the audience’, and I try to go through ad
pray at least each week. I’m
not perfectly faithful, but I pray for the people. And
then as I pray for the people, I try to be led by the Lord. ‘What is the need?’ ‘What is the need?’ And I just pray. And I’ll be honest with you, it’s
been amazing. And I
continue to do it because I see the fruit of it. I
see God work. [And
I might add here that this tiny online ministry and I personally
need prayer to continue. I know from the various statistical websites
that monitor websites, that this site gets right now 744 serious
users per month, or 186 serious users per week. Boy
would it be uplifting to have a good portion of them lifting me
and this website up to the Lord in prayer each day and each week. Click on http://www.unityinchrist.com/memphisbelle.htm , http://www.unityinchrist.com/author.htm and http://www.unityinchrist.com/history/historycog1.htm
to learn some of my
spiritual background and upbringing and what I go through in a
spiritual sense.] I pray for people, you know, I just lift
them up. ‘Lord,
you know, Joe is coming [to church], I haven’t seen him in
awhile, I know he’s struggling, I heard through the grapevine
a little bit, and Lord I just lift him to you, just move him Lord,
get him back into church, get his attention, whether it’s
just a dullness or lack of love for you, something, Lord.’ And
don’t you know, it’s been awhile since we’ve
seen him, and the very next Sunday I’ll be sitting in the
back, and here goes Joe walking by. I mean, it’s amazing. It’s amazing. I
could give you so many stories. I’ve
seen the fruits of it so many times. John is saying when we see a brother or
sister in sins, struggling, we should pray for them because God
will respond. That’s
exactly how it’s written. He
will give them life. It’s not ever put as a question. God will respond, if I pray according
to his will, boldly, confidently, God will respond, he will give
them life. That says to me that a praying church
then is a holy church, a church that’s praying for each other. It’s a church that’s being
purified, it’s a holy church, God is working. When
you stop seeing the people that used to be here that aren’t
here anymore, what should you do? What
should you do? You should pray for them. Not turn the other way, not just kind
of forget. Phone-call
doesn’t hurt either. But you should pray for them. Because, sometimes, often it’s because
they’re struggling. When
you see kids downstairs in the children’s ministry, you’re
working in the children’s ministry and you see a child, you
know, as a little child they had a heart for God, and now they’re
struggling with behavior and this or that, what should you do? You
should pray for them. You should pray for them. God will without a doubt respond to give
that little person life, spiritual life. When
you’re in the kids ministries downstairs and the kids are
more excited for the Harry Potter’s movies than they are
for Jesus, man, what should you do? You should pray for them, you should pray
for them. There’s
a story, Zinzidorf, quite a name, August 17th, 1727,
Count Zinzidorf was giving spiritual instructions. Was this to
a church of 1,000 wealthy and influential adherents? Far
from it. The Count’s occupation would be
disdained by men of today in the clergy. His
instruction was to a class of only nine girls between the ages
of 10 and 13, so it wasn’t what some would have considered
in some hearts as some great awesome ministry. Of course, it was in the eyes of God. He had told his wife that although the
girls gave outward attention, he could not perceive any trace of
spiritual life among them. It
is recorded that on July 16th he poured out his heart
in effective prayer and was in great anguish of soul for those
girls. Then for ten
days August 17th to 27th this influential
Count’s prayers were answered in a great outpouring of the
Spirit of God upon these girls. As the hours passed, more girls, and then
boys, then even adults of the refugee community of Hernhutt come
under the Spirit’s influence. And
eye witness said ‘I cannot describe the cause of this great
awakening of the children of Hernhutt to anything but the wonderful
outpouring of the Spirit of God.’ But they evidently didn’t know that
this godly man spent a day where he was just on his face, ‘God,
these girls, Lord, these girls Lord, there’s this deadness,
there’s not an excitement. God give them life.’ And then, the next day, for ten days,
man, something started to happen. Even
moms and dads started showing up from the community. That
is what John is saying. That
is exactly what he is saying. When
the church body seems dull, when the church body seems dead, what
should we do? We should
pray. We should pray, ‘God work, God work
in the hearts of these people.’ When
your spouse, you’ve got a Christian spouse, there’s
struggling, your marriage is struggling, what should you do? You
should pray. You should
pray. You know, if you haven’t read them,
I often quoted them in the past, but Jim Cymbala, man, his books
on prayer are just awesome. And
he has stories, and he talks about incredible answers to prayer. But
I’ll just read to you a page or two here from his book Fresh
Faith [available from http://www.amazon.com or http://www.christianbook.com ]. A story about a man named
Calvin Hunt. This particular man was kind of a knight
in shining armor. He
married a lady named Miriam….[he then turned into a crack
addict. She had married
this knight in shining armor and now was married to this total
crack addict.] And
now she had an abusive husband, now she’s married to this
guy who actually was living in a doghouse in somebody’s back
yard. During that time
she became a Christian, and as a Christian she started to just
have a real heart of prayer for her husband Calvin, even brought
him before the church just in prayer, and the church at times would
pray for him in the prayer-meetings [this would have been the Brooklyn
Tabernacle]. And for three years he continued down
this road and she decided she wasn’t going to divorce him,
but she believed that God would hear her prayers, and that God
would get this man’s attention. Well, he was living in a doghouse, drugged
out. But when she was
at church or she would go away, he would know it when she wasn’t
there, so he would sneak back into the apartment and change clothes
and take a shower. He’d kind of time it so she didn’t
see him for long periods of time. One
particular night, Friday night, prayer-meeting was going on at
the church, it was one of those times he knew she’d be away,
so he came back, she wasn’t there, he snuck into the apartment
to get the change of clothes, and it just so happened at that time,
this is a beautiful story, Brooklyn Tabernacle Church, they were
having their prayer-meeting, and she had lifted him up in prayer
before the congregation, and the congregation began to pray for
him. Well, here, I’ll start reading in
this book Fresh
Faith, page 142, “Calvin headed once again for the
family apartment after his wife and children had left. In
the quietness he found some food in the refrigerator, then took
a shower and put on clean clothes. There
was time for a short nap, so he decided to lie down. But
for some reason he couldn’t sleep. Soon
he heard a noise. From
the closet came the soft sound of somebody weeping. He
sat up. Maybe Miriam
and the children were home after all. He
looked in the children’s rooms, under the bed, inside the
various closets, nobody. No
one. But the sobbing continued. He stood in the living room and said out
loud
‘I know you guys are in here, come out. Nobody
appeared. Calvin was
spooked. He thought
of lying down once again, but something inside him seemed to say, ‘if
you go to sleep tonight, you’ll never wake up again.’ He
panicked, running out the door he dashed three blocks to the train
station to go to see if his wife and children were really at the
prayer-meeting or not. He burst into the church and stood at
the back of the center aisle scanning the crowd. Suddenly
the same sounds of crying struck his ears, only much louder than
back in the apartment. The
whole congregation was in earnest prayer, calling out his name
to God in faith. Calvin was thunder-struck. As he slowly moved down the aisle gazing
at the people’s upraised hands and their eyes tightly shut
in prayer, tears running down their faces, “Oh God, wherever
Calvin Hunt is, bring him to this building” they pleaded. “Don’t
let this family go through this horror another day. Lord
if you’re able, set him free from his bondage once and for
all.” Soon Calvin
found himself in the front directly before the pulpit. The
pastor in charge opened his eyes, took one glance, and gazed upward
towards heaven and he said in the microphone, “Thank you,
Lord, thank you Jesus, here he is.” With
that the congregation went absolutely crazy. They’d
been calling upon the Lord to bring Calvin to himself and it was
happening right before their very eyes. Falling
to his knees Calvin burst into uncontrollable sobs. Miriam
and the children came from their pew to huddle around him as he
prayed
“Oh God, I’ve become everything I said I’d never
be, I don’t want to die this way. Please
come into my life and set me free. Oh
Jesus I need you so much.”” Well,
he became a Christian, and Calvin Hunt in fact is a noteworthy
Gospel singer today. But he’s in the apartment, and he
hears crying. And at
that very instant people are praying for him. I
believe that’s exactly what he’s saying here. [Now that is an example of a real prayer-meeting. For
more incredible examples and stories like this one, be sure to
order your own copies Fresh
Wind, Fresh Fire and Fresh Faith from either http://www.amazon.com or http://www.christianbook.com . For
prayer resources on this site log onto http://www.unityinchrist.com/prayer/prayer-teamessentials.htm and
click on any one of the upper nav buttons.] Somebody, a brother or sister
is struggling, maybe it’s your wife, maybe it’s your
husband. Now that’s a story of somebody that’s
not a Christian [wasn’t a Christian, is now though!]. And
certainly if it’s true in that case, as it often is, it is
always true when you pray for a Christian.
Pray for our marriages, pray for
our children
And I would ask you
to pray for the marriages in this church, pray for the marriages
in this church, man. There is such a battle, such a war. I’ve had years in the church, I’ve
said ‘You know, man, cool, we never see divorce around here
[in his church congregation], it’s so uncommon’, and
I would say in the last months it’s been almost like a plague
in this church. And
I’d ask you to pray for the people that are struggling, because
God will give them life. That’s
what he says. [It also doesn’t hurt to use good
marriage resources when you’re struggling with this one. See http://www.howmarriageworks.com . And
by all means, pray. Even pray the Lord gives you the ability
to apply good resources, for with us believers, it’s the
Lord’s empowerment that gives us the ability to do what is
right. Knowing isn’t
enough. An ancient
Chinese proverb says “To
know the truth is easy. But,
ah, how difficult to follow it!”] What
do you do when your own kids are struggling? What
should you do? Well
there’s a lot of different things you can do, but one thing
is for sure, we should pray, we should pray. There’s
a little piece of poetry, about a father’s gift. “To
you oh son of mine, I cannot give a vast estate of wide and fertile
lands, but I can keep for you that whilst I live unstained hands,
I have no blazoned skution that ensures you your path to eminence
and worldly fame, but longer than empty heraldry endures a blameless
name. I have no treasure
chest of gold refined, or horded wealth of clinking glittering
pelth. I give to you
my hand and heart and mind, all of myself. I
can exert no mighty influence to make a place for you in men’s
affairs, but lift to God in secret audience unceasing prayers. I
cannot, though I would, be always near to guard your steps with
the parental rod. I
trust your soul to him who holds you dear, your father’s
God.” So dad,
what do we do when our kids are struggling in life and things like
that? One thing you can especially do, I say
especially if they are a born-again believer, especially, you can
pray for them. I think
of another story from Jim Cymbala’s book, that story of his
daughter Chrissie [that one is in Fresh
Wind, Fresh Fire]. You
know, we have a video if you haven’t seen it, I’d encourage
you to check it out. But his daughter, he’s a pastor
of a large church, and his daughter was a Christian and walking
with God, and decided, got to that time in life, I guess as sometimes
they do, went on a road of just complete terror and awfulness,
and did about everything under the sun, and here he was grieving,
and he even got to the point where he thought he couldn’t
pastor anymore, this pastor of a massive church. Well, as you’ve heard the story,
God began to minister to Jim Cymbala, he was just complaining to
God, and complaining to God over the months, and God said to him ‘Stop
complaining and just pray for your daughter, just pray for her.’ One
night he was at a prayer-meeting, and as he was at the prayer-meeting
he just decided ‘I’m not going to talk to anybody anymore,
I’m going to just pray and started to pray. And
God really began to move his heart in prayer. And
there was a prayer-meeting this Tuesday night, packed out, hundreds
and hundreds of people [the Brooklyn Tabernacle], and somebody
passed him a note and said ‘I think we should pray for your
daughter, I really have it on my heart, we should pray for your
daughter right now.’ So
they started to pray. And
he said the type of prayer that went on in that room was so amazing,
it was like people were giving birth. Well,
he knew something happened that night. Got
home, went to his wife and said to her, he says ‘It’s
over.’ His wife
Carol says ‘What’s over?’ He
says ‘It’s over with Chrissie. You
would have had to have been in the prayer meeting tonight, I tell
you if there’s a God in heaven this whole nightmare is finally
over.’ And then he described to her what had
taken place. I’ll
read to you from his book Fresh
Wind, Fresh Fire, just a page here. “Thirty-two
hours later on Thursday morning as I was shaving, Carol suddenly
burst through the door, her eyes wide. ‘Go
downstairs’ she blurted, ‘Chrissie’s here!’ ‘Chrissie’s here?’ ‘Yes, go down.’ ‘But Carol, I….’ ‘Just go down’ she urged, ‘It’s
you she wants to see.’ I
wiped off the shaving cream foam and headed down the stairs, my
heart pounding, came around the corner, I saw my daughter on the
kitchen floor walking on her hands and knees sobbing. Cautiously
I spoke her name, ‘Chrissie?’ She
grabbed my pant-leg and began pouring out her anguish, ‘Daddy,
Daddy, I’ve sinned against God. I’ve sinned against myself, I’ve
sinned against you and Mommy, please forgive me.’ My
vision was as clouded by tears as hers, I pulled her up from the
floor and held her close as we cried together. Suddenly,
she drew back, ‘Daddy,’ she said with a start, ‘Who
was praying for me, who was praying for me?’ How
voice was like that of a cross-examining attorney. ‘What do you mean, Chrissie?’ ‘On Tuesday night, who was praying
for me?’ I didn’t
say anything, so she continued. ‘In
the middle of the night God woke me and showed me I was heading
toward this abyss, there was no bottom to it, it scared me to death,
I was so frightened, I realized how hard I’ve been, how wrong,
how rebellious, but at the same time it was like God wrapped his
arms around me and held me tight, he kept me from sliding any farther,
as he said ‘I still love you.’ Daddy,
tell me the truth, who was praying for me on Tuesday night?’ I looked into her bloodshot eyes, and
once again recognized the daughter we had raised.’” So
that’s what he’s saying [the apostle John]. That’s why the Brooklyn Tabernacle
church is the church that it is. He
says, if you see a brother or sister that is sinning, that is struggling,
don’t turn up your nose, don’t judge them, don’t
give up on them, don’t be indifferent, he says “Pray
with a passion of God that seeks the throne-room of God, cry out and God will give them life.” He’ll give them life. Wow. That
is a great Scripture. That
is beautiful, that is beautiful. That’s
why we encourage you, I encourage you, if you’re able to,
I know life is full, but one Sunday night a month, we have prayer-meetings
here every Sunday night, and I figure if one Sunday a month we
all can commit to being at one Sunday night prayer-meeting, we’ll have
a quarter of our body, 25 percent of the church here on Sunday
nights praying, praying for one another, crying out. And
God at times will do exactly that, it’s amazing, you can
be in a prayer-room with a few people, and there can be somebody
on the other side of the planet, and you can go ‘Oh God,
oh God, oh Lord, what happened to so and so, you know she’s,
why’s she doing that Lord, I can’t believe she’s
doing that, she knows that isn’t right, it’s going
to hurt her, destroy her. God we lift her to you, we lift her to
you, work in her life.’ And
God says
“I’ll give her life, I’ll give her life.” You
know, we got a full life, man, but if it’s too full to pray,
my goodness. John has given us a great encouragement
here. I don’t
know if we could think of a verse more profoundly that’s
effected me on intercessory prayer than this one. And
he’s made it clear, we should pray, we should pray for one
another.
Summary
He says in verse 17,
we’ve dealt with the sin leading to death, “I don’t
tell you we should pray about that.” You
know, I say it’s apostasy [he’s talking about], you
can say and exhort people that have gone down that road, but if
they’ve really committed that sin, they’ve blasphemed
the Holy Spirit and have hardened their heart and are never going
to turn to God. He says “All unrighteousness is
sin, and there’s sin not leading to death.” What
is he saying, “all unrighteousness is sin”, what does
it mean? Unrighteousness means doing something
to self or others, doing something that is not right, so it’s
sin against God and it’s sin against your fellow man. All
unrighteousness of course is sin, and there is sin not leading
to death. Well, verses 16 through 17. We’ll pick up next time with verse
18. John has said we can be effective in prayer,
there is effective prayer, there is praying where God actually
hears and answers your prayers and gives you the things that you
ask for. He says effective prayer is with boldness
and faith, coming to God, coming to God confidently, it is coming
directly to God through Jesus Christ, it is praying with God’s
heart and God’s will. And he says the result of that is you
will have the ear of God, and if you have the ear of God, you will
have the things that you ask for. And
then the next thing he says, “Pray, pray for one another. Pray
for a brother or sister in Christ who’s struggling.” He
goes right from that, pray for others in the church, pray for others
in your family, pray for them. Pray
for non-believers, pray for believers, but pray for those who are
struggling, it is very powerful, God will give them life as you
pray. Man, you can
pray for me all you want. I
plead with you to pray for me. [and
me too, and this website ministry.] He
says don’t pray for those who have committed the sin leading
to death, and how do you know that? God
just shows you, and I’ve had I believe, him show that to
me in my life. There’s some that have gone that
road, blaspheming the Holy Spirit. Here’s
a little piece of poetry as we conclude. “Make
me an intercessor, one who can really pray, one of the Lord’s
rememberancers by night as well as day. Make
me an intercessor, in spirit touch with thee, and give the heavenly
vision praying through to victory. Make
me an intercessor, teach me how to prevail, to stand my ground
and still pray on, though powers of hell assail. Make
me an intercessor, sharing thy death and life, in prayer claiming
others, claiming others
victory in the strife. Make
me an intercessor, willing for deeper depth, empty, broken, but
made anew and filled with living breath.” ‘Lord,
we thank you for your Word. We
thank you Lord Jesus. I just pray simply we’ve looked
at these words and we’ve tried to reason, and of course John
stated things so matter of factly and so straightly, and sometimes
as he does that he doesn’t really explain himself and we
get these phrases where, Lord, we try to discern ‘What does
he mean by this sin leading to death?’, and we’ve worked
through that, and got that out of the way, but the main thing,
certainly the focus of, Lord, what you said through John there
is to pray, pray. There
is effective prayer, and especially as we pray as Christians, we
pray for one another. I
ask you Lord that you put that kind of love in our hearts here
at this church, that we wouldn’t be just concerned about
ourselves, just always worrying about that and laying burdens on
other people because we have all these things, but that we would
have a heart that prays for others. That
we’d be concerned for our fellow brother and sister in Christ,
and that we would have a burden for others when they are struggling. That it would be a burden on our hearts,
heavy on our hearts, so we would come before you with that burden
and we’d just open our hearts to you and passionately beseeching
you, God, God, so and so, this is the deal, God, this person, God,
their marriage, God their child, Lord, we say as we come, asking
you to lead us, praying in the Spirit, led by you, praying according
to your will, you will give them life….” [a transcript of a sermon given somewhere
in New England.]
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