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Proverbs
21:1-31
“The
king's heart is in the hand of the LORD, as the rivers of
water: he turneth it withersoever he will. 2 Every
way of a man is right in his own eyes: but the LORD pondereth the hearts. 3 To do justice and judgment is more acceptable to the LORD than sacrifice. 4 An high
look, and a proud heart, and the plowing of the wicked is sin. 5 The thoughts of the diligent tend only to plentiousness; but of every one that is hasty only to want. 6 The getting of treasures by a
lying tongue is vanity tossed to and fro of them that seek death. 7 The robbery of the wicked shall
destroy them; because they refuse to do judgment. 8 The way of man is froward and strange: but as for the pure, his work is right. 9 It is better to dwell in a corner of
the house top, than with a brawling woman in a wide house. 10 The soul of the wicked desireth
evil: his neighbour findeth no favour in
his eyes. 11 When the
scorner is punished, the simple is made wise: and when the wise is instructed, he receiveth knowledge. 12 The righteous man wisely considereth the house of the
wicked: but God overthroweth the
wicked for their wickedness. 13 Whoso stoppeth his ears at the
cry of the poor, he also shall cry himself, but shall not be heard. 14 A gift in secret pacifieth
anger: and a reward in the bosom strong
wrath. 15 It is joy to the just to do
judgment: but destruction shall be to the workers of iniquity. 16 The man that wandereth out of
the way of understanding shall remain in the congregation of the dead. 17 He that loveth pleasure shall
be a poor man: he that loveth wine
and oil shall not be rich. 18 The wicked shall be a
ransom for the righteous, and the transgressor for the upright. 19 It is better to dwell in the
wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman. 20 There is treasure to be desired and oil
in the dwelling of the wise; but a foolish man spendeth it up. 21 He that followeth after
righteousness and mercy findeth life, righteousness, and honour. 22 A wise man scaleth the
city of the mighty, and casteth down the strength of the confidence thereof. 23 Whoso keepeth his mouth and his
tongue keepeth his soul from troubles. 24 Proud and haughty scorner is his name, who
dealeth in proud wrath. 25 The
desire of the slothful killeth him; for his hands refuse to labour. 26 He coveteth greedily all the day long: but the righteous giveth and spareth not. 27 The sacrifice of the wicked is abomination: how much more, when he bringeth it with a wicked mind? 28 A false witness shall
perish: but the man that heareth
speaketh constantly. 29 A
wicked man hardeneth his face: but as
for the upright, he directeth his way. 30 There is no wisdom nor understanding nor counsel against
the LORD. 31 The horse is prepared
against the day of battle: but safety is of the LORD.”
Introduction:
God Is Ultimately Responsible For World Leadership
“Proverbs
chapter 21, begins by telling us “the king's heart” Solomon writing, I
wonder what he thinks, as he's putting his quill to the page, “The king's
heart is in the hand of the LORD, as the rivers of water: he turneth it withersoever he will.” (verse
1) Great encouragement for us, as we look at the
world today, and see world leaders that we're not happy with at all, remember
that the LORD is sovereign, that they are in
his hand. It's a great exhortation for
those that are in leadership, for the king here, to realize that God is
sovereign in their lives. Again, great
encouragement for us to pray, 1st Timothy chapter 2, Paul says 'for
those in authority, kings and rulers and so forth, Nero was on the throne
then. So this, the king's heart, the
monarch, the civil authority, the President, the Prime Minister, his heart is
in the hands of the LORD, as rivers of water, you know,
God is able, every river begins with a spring somewhere, and it flows, it
broadens as tributaries come, it begins with nothing, ends up to be a river, it
flows, it consummates, and ends up to have force moving in a direction. It says the LORD is involved in the springs of
that, is involved in the beginnings of that, he can aim that. We see Nehemiah, burdened about Jerusalem,
hearing the walls were broken down, Artaxerxes saying 'What's the deal? You look so sad.' And he prays, and says 'Let the king give
me favour.' and the LORD facilitates, sends him back to
Jerusalem. We see Ahimelech, in Genesis,
God gives him a dream so that he will set Abraham free, 'What did you do,
you came here, told me your wife was your sister.' You see God moving on Cyrus to finance
and to finish the job of rebuilding Jerusalem and the Temple, you see him
working in the life of Nebuchadnezzar to finally give a command that all places
and all people, that the God of Daniel should be worshiped, the God of heaven. You see him, no doubt in the life of Caesar
Augustus, in his days he gave a command that all the world be taxed, and Mary
and Joseph then had to go from Nazareth up to Bethlehem, the house of David,
there where the Saviour was to be born, throughout the Scripture. Today as we look at the news, that's good for
me to remember, because I have agida when I watch the news, I am aggravated,
and God has to reprove me, and challenge me to pray, and to trust him. Daniel tells us even the basest of men are
raised up, at times, over a nation. So, “The
king's heart is in the hand of the LORD, as the rivers of water: he turneth it” this king's heart “withersoever he will.”
Self-Deception Stops With The LORD
“Every
way of a man is right in his own eyes: but the LORD pondereth the hearts.” (verse
2) Every way of a man seems right in his own
eyes, I am amazed at the potential I personally have for self-deception,
because I can get myself out on a limb somewhere, thinking something, and have
to say 'Lord, drag my motives into the Light, would you please, I know I'm
grinding here with something I shouldn't be grinding with,' so sometimes
just, the thoughts of a man, a woman, they seem right in their own eyes,
everybody thinks their way is right, but the LORD weighs the hearts.
Make Your Worship Real
“To
do justice and judgment is more acceptable to the LORD than sacrifice.” (verse 3) He will say this in the beginning of Isaiah, 'I
abhor your sacrifices, your feasts days are an abomination to me,' you know, just all of this stuff, 'who
cares about how many oxen you kill, how many throats of lambs you slaughter
when your heart is far from me, I’m looking for fellowship, not for
religiosity,' he says 'let
us reason, though your sins be as scarlet they'll be white as snow,' and so forth. To do justice and judgment, that is what the
LORD is looking for, it should be
produced out of genuine fellowship of the LORD and not just a man involved in ritual. Many of us grew up in that ritualistic
religion.
The Lamp Of The Wicked Is Sin
He
says “An high look, and a proud heart, and the plowing of the wicked is sin.”
(verse 4) King James I think gets this one wrong, a high look is outward,
somebody that's got an arrogant look, you've seen that. Haven't you? If you've raised kids you've seen that. 'What did I tell you?' and
you catch them. 'Don't look at me
like that,' just a proud look, and arrogant high look. A proud heart,
that's inward, that's not seen. The
plowing is interesting, the Hebrew word is “lamp” here, 'the lamp of the
wicked is sin.' What they think
guides their way, you know, it was a lamp that guided you at night, the way of
every man is right in his own eyes, you know, it says to do justice and
judgment, that's the right thing, more acceptable than sacrifice. A proud look, an arrogant look, a proud
heart, and the lamp of the wicked is sin, there's no real guidance there.
Haste Makes Waste
“The
thoughts of the diligent tend only to plentiousness; but every one that
is hasty only to want.” (verse 5) Those
who are diligent, good stewards over what they have, God blesses that. “but every one that is hasty only
to want.” only want comes from that,
haste makes waste, one of our
proverbs.
Getting Of Treasures By Lying Is Empty
“The
getting of treasures by a lying tongue is a vanity tossed to and fro of them that seek
death.” (verse 6) interesting, what your translation says, it seems to be speaking, it's a
vanity, it's just a breath that's exhaled. Getting treasure by a lying tongue, it's nothing, it's like a breath,
it's something exhaled is the idea of what it's saying here.
God Takes Away The Robber’s Wisdom
And “The
robbery of the wicked shall destroy them; because they refuse to do judgment.”
(verse 7) literally “shall chew them up, because they refuse
to do justice.” And these days
they take Selfies, and after they rob the bank, got their money, and they take
a Selfie, and then the police watch the Selfie on the Internet and say “I
know who those guys are, now we know who stole it,' God evidently takes away their wisdom too,
when they do things like that. [chuckles]
Some People Are Strange
It
says, “The way of man is froward and strange: but as for the pure, his work is right.” (verse 8) just, man left to himself. How many times have you said that, 'That
guy's strange, Biblical for him to do that.' “but as for the pure, his work is right.”
Who Not To Marry
“It is better to dwell in a corner of the house top,
than with a brawling woman in a wide house.” (verse 9) especially if she's 6'5” or 6'6”, in a wide
house. Ah 'A woman of contentions' is the idea. You know,
earlier we said, 'a wife that's contentious is like a continual
dripping.' then you're inside
the house. Now she's dripping so long
you're outside the house on the roof. You know, a continual dripping, again the roofs were made of plaster and
sticks and wood, and if there was a continual leak, the whole structure was in
jeopardy, it compromised the entire structure of the home, and certainly a
woman that's constantly like that is doing that. And Solomon has 700 wives, he made his own
problems, 300 concubines, you know, he said 'It's better to dwell in the
corner of the house top,' he
must have had a nice place up there, I imagine. This is the wisest man who ever lived, he can't win. “It is better to dwell in the
corner of the house top,” you're up there in the elements, the wind and the
rain, “than with a brawling” a contentious “woman in a wide house.” Just, arguing is not good. And look, this can be, by the way, it's not
talking about it, but it can be the same way if there's a brawling husband, a
contentious husband. You know, sometimes
it's better for us to give place to one another, than to give place to the
devil. Because that's who wins if we
aren't yielding. Again, there's higher
things than just winning sometimes, even if you're right and the other person's
wrong. Sometimes peace is the premium,
and God appreciates that more than just right and wrong. Peter tells us that a woman of a meek and
quiet spirit is of a great price in the sight of God. So, Solomon will go through these things,
another one of these as we're moving through.
The Wicked Are Selfish
It
says, “The soul of the wicked desireth evil: his neighbour findeth no favour in his eyes.” (verse 10) in his inward parts, that's what he longs
for. And his neighbour finds no favour
in his eyes, that's because he doesn't want anything to do with
neighbourlyness, inside he's only longing for the things that are selfish. So he neighbour finds no favour in his
eyes.
A Healthy Chain-Reaction, Think About It
“When
the scorner is punished, the simple is made wise: and when the wise is instructed, he receiveth
knowledge.” (verse 11) I like this. If you take a scorner, a mocker, and in that day someone who was
scorning and mocking, sometimes they were beaten, so it says when the scorner
is punish, even the simple, people who kind of lack understanding, they become
wiser seeing that person whupped. “and
when the wise is instructed, he receiveth knowledge.” There's a learning all the way across the
board there.
The Righteous Man Considers Where The Wicked Are
Headed
It
says “The righteous man”or
woman, put yourself in there girls “wisely considereth the house of the
wicked: but God overthroweth the wicked for their wickedness.”
(verse 12) so the righteous person, it doesn't say they're judgmental,
doesn't say they hate, it says they wisely consider the house of the
wicked. And in the culture here, the
household was more than just the building. The idea is, 'their dynasty, their place,' the righteous
person wisely considers that. Asaph said
when he was looking at it wrongly, when he coveted, he was envious, you know,
the prosperity of the wicked, he said he had well-nigh slipped, he was in a
slippery place. He said he got so far
out of perspective, he said 'I couldn't even talk to the people in church
about it, because I would have stumbled them, I just saw good people suffering,
bad people making out,' he said, 'until I went into the house of
the LORD, and then I considered their
end.' He said, 'What set me right was I got
things back in perspective of eternity again.' And I think for us, one of the great things
about coming to church Sunday's [or Saturday's], Wednesday's, Tuesday mornings,
Monday nights, all kinds of things going on during the week. As you finally get away from a world that
makes fun of you because of what you believe about marriage, or what you
believe about Creation, or what you believe about eternity, what you believe
about sin, what you believe about eternal life, what you believe about hell. And
you gather with a whole bunch of other people who want to sing about what you
believe in, you're kind of resonating, this is good, this is kind of a warm-up,
Lord, get us out of here, I can't wait till the Big Show starts. You just kind of get in that place where if
feels so right to you. And wisely then,
considering, remembering, this is where the world is going, you know. And narrow is the way that leads to eternal
life, and few that be that find it, and broad is the way that leads to
destruction, and many there be that go thereon. The righteous person wisely considers the house of the wicked. God overthroweth the wicked, that's what the
righteous man wisely considers, that they'll be overthrown.
No Mercy Shown, None Given
“Whoso
stoppeth his ears at the cry of the poor, he also shall cry himself, but shall
not be heard.” (verse 13) Whoso stoppeth his ears at the cry of the poor seems to give us a picture of
the hardhearted. It doesn't say 'Whoso
stops his ears at the cry of the lazy,' it's not in here about the sluggard. And often we're in a circumstance, you know, you look at the news, I
think we see the cry of the poor all around us, we're exposed to that in the
media, we see the areas where there's war, we see the areas where there's
bodies laying in the street, huge earthquakes and tsunamis, we see people
getting their heads cut off, we can see people in our own communities, just
disenfranchised, broken-down, and every Christian should have that heart-pang,
you know, that desire...and you know, the other side of the coin, you ride down
the street, you see somebody with a sign that says HUNGRY. Now some of those people, I hate to tell
you, are making 300-400 bucks a day, they're driving a nicer car than you. So, you tend, then you don't want to be,
should I be skeptical, I don't want to finance irresponsibility, so there's a
balance in there somewhere. I would say
this, when in doubt, err on the side of mercy. Don't err on the side of judgment, because we can all be kind of
persnickety and judgmental, not me, but other people I see driving around. And when you're not sure, the Christ in us
would give, and you'll be rewarded whether the person is taking advantage of
you or not. But we certainly live in a
world, and I have the feeling, we're going to see more hardship, I don't get
any sense, from studying Scripture, things are going to get easier as we move
forward [and if they do, God granting restoration for the sake of the Body of
Christ, Jesus is going to expect us to use those gifted resources wisely for
the promotion of the Gospel]. We're
going to be more dependent on one another, and it's going to require that we,
that all men know we're his disciples by the love that we show one another,
we'll have to reach out and hold one another up more and more. So, the person whose stopping his ears, the idea is, he is stopping up his
ears, it says “the cry of the poor,” there's a pleading. The problem with this person is their heart
is hard, and when your heart is hard, your ears are stopped up as well, is what
it's saying. So, “Whoso stoppeth his
ears at the cry of the poor,” and this poor person, whether we see them in
the news, or see them in another country, remember, they're an image-bearer,
they're an image-bearer, they're bearing the image of Almighty God, they were
created in his image and likeness. They
are in a less fortunate circumstance than the rest of us. “Whoso stoppeth his ears at the cry of the
poor, he also shall cry himself, but shall not be heard.” (verse 13) [see http://www.unityinchrist.com/evangelism/samaritan_purse.htm]
You Can Act Wisely When There’s Been An Offense
Verse
14 is a little rough, “A gift in secret pacifieth anger: and a reward in the bosom strong wrath.” Now, some scholars try to say, because
it says 'a gift in secret' it's talking about something shady, something wrong,
it's just talking about a bribe. But other
scholars, and most of them feel this verse is saying 'hey, a gift in secret pacifieth anger,' sometimes at home, when
I've been a jerk, and I have to think way back [his wife is thinking, 'you don't have to think that far back'],
but just with Cathy, a card, cards do not mean anything to me, I appreciate
when you give me cards, but I don't ever go 'Oh,
these people gave me such a nice card, I'm so touched.' It means something to her that it will never
mean to me. I don't have to understand
that, I don't have the means to measure that. But what I do know, is that it's important to her. Flowers, again, you know I can get the $5
flowers driving down on the corner, they're kind of nice, they can be a little
bit beat, you know, or I can get the ones from the supermarket, a little more
expensive, they're a little nicer, they look better. But if I ever stop and get ones with those
little ferns, and little white flowers around them, she can't believe 'You stopped at a florist? You got me those,' they'll sit on the
table for a week and say 'He's a jerk,
but you need to cut him some slack, he's really trying,' they talk out loud
to her. And it seems to be saying,
that's what it's saying here. 'A
gift in secret, it pacifieth anger, and a reward in the bosom strong wrath.' It seems to be saying, you can act wisely
when there's an offense, and you can give. And that can help things get patched up. Even if I'm wrong, you should do that anyway, I think that's what the
verse says here. I don't think it's
talking about bribery. You know,
sometimes you can bribe your wife too, that's all up to you.
Workers Of Iniquity And Those Who Wander From The
Truth
“It
is joy to the just to do judgment; but destruction shall be to the workers of iniquity.” (verse 15) 'to do judgment, to do what is right,' these are very straight forward. “The
man that wandereth out of the way of understanding shall remain in the
congregation of the dead.” (verse 16) that's sobering. Somebody who
wanders out of the way, and it seems, willingly, doesn't want anything to do
with instruction or understanding, he's going to remain in the congregation of
the dead. He may have a place now in
this life that is not permanent, and he can wander from one thing to the next,
where it finally deposits you in a permanent place, and it says he'll remain
there.
Avoiding Immediate Gratification Can Produce
Long-Term Goals
“He
that loveth pleasure shall be a
poor man: he that loveth wine and oil shall not be rich.” (verse 16) No doubt, both spiritual poverty, and a
warning, if you love wine, somebody who loves feasting, all they want to do is
stuff themselves. I just want to stuff
myself a percentage of the time. What it's
saying here, 'He that loveth pleasure,' 'avoiding immediate
gratification can produce long-term goals,' that's what it's
saying. Avoiding immediate
gratification, we see that with somebody getting in shape, somebody getting in
shape for the Olympics, somebody getting in shape for the NFL season, you know,
somebody whose going to compete somewhere, they understand a certain measure of
discipline, they're not going to eat, feed themselves, take care of things, and
avoiding immediate gratification sometimes will produce long-term goals, and
the person whose wise understands that. So he that loveth pleasure, just indulges all
the time, he's going to be poor. The
person that loves wine and oil, which is a sign of prosperity and of feasting,
he's not going to be rich, because they eat everything up, there's no setting
aside, there's no thinking ahead.
Remember Haman
“The
wicked shall be a ransom for the righteous, and the transgressor for the
upright.” (verse 18) interesting,
the wicked shall be a ransom for the righteous, now Rashi, one of the famous
rabbis in the Middle Ages, that most Jewish scholars revere, says this is a
picture of Haman, remember Haman, who was hung on his own gallows in the Book
of Esther. So, the wicked shall be a
ransom for the righteous, and the transgressor for the upright.
Stay Away From The Contentious & Angry Woman, Really Don’t Marry Her
Now
we're back to this brawling woman again in verse 19, she's butted her way into
this chapter twice, she's tough to deal with here, and we're in the wilderness
now, we started in the house, we moved to the roof, and now we've left the
roof, we've left the city, we've left the irrigated fields, we are out in the
middle of nowhere now, “It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an
angry woman.” (verse 19) the Hebrews says “than with a woman of
contentions and vexation,' King
James says “contentious and an angry woman.” It is better to dwell, and you understand, to
the Jew the wilderness was not 'you're going camping in the woods,' you see the
wilderness in Judea, it is the desert, there's nothing out there, where Jesus
went for 40 days and 40 nights. 'I
would rather be out in the desert, burning up all day, freezing at night, with
lizards and serpents as my friends than live in the house with her. We tried living on the roof, no, that didn't
work, so I got a bus, I'm out in the wilderness now.' I don't know if there's any particular
insight here, men love peace and quiet sometimes. I'm made different than Cathy. Some say the average man speaks around 2,000
words a day, the average woman speaks between 4,000 and 5,000 words a day [see http://www.HOWMARRIAGEWORKS.com/heshe.php]. And sometimes I've come home, I've met my
quota, I'm done, all 2,000 are gone, and Cathy's just warming up. And it will go on, so I understand that. And sometimes, and men and women are so
different, I'm around people, that's what I do [and he's a pastor of a
Mega-church, so he knows]. I've been to
the women's retreat where they've got these big round tables, and you'll see 8
or 10 women sitting at a table, talking, all at the same time, and everybody
knows what everybody else is saying in the conversation. You sit there at the men's retreat, at a
table, one guy talks at a time, 'Man, did you see that game last week?' 'Seven other heads go, this guy says something, everybody looks over
there, 'Oh I didn't know, did you think that was going to happen?” seven other guys go like this, and then this
guy talks. It's just so different. If you raise boys and girls, and
psychologists have affirmed this, that a little girl, by the time she's
3-years-old is saying sentences, she has a vocabulary of about 300 to 400 words
by then. A little boy is still grunting. And I raised both. Joanna wasn't even two years old, and she
would say 'Dad, do not antagonize me.' The boys were just saying 'Mmm, umh-uh, mm-mm,' just, you
know. So different. So sometimes the man just needs peace and
quiet. And if he's got somebody who
wants to constantly fight, it's a tough situation. I think of Job, I think there were times he
wanted peace and quiet. God said to
Satan, 'Alright, you can test him,
don't mess with him, don't touch him,' so he kills all of his kids, burns down all of his houses, kills all of
his crops, his herds, and leaves his wife alive. He knew what he was doing. And Job's wife is next to him saying 'Curse
God and die, what's your problem.' and I think Job just wanted some peace and quiet then, personally. Sometimes that's what a man does. And the woman's surprised at him when he's
gone, 'Where is he?' 'he's in the
wilderness, he tried the roof, he's gone.' [he chuckles] he is gone. I
would say this then, to you young guys, there's a few here. You're looking for a wife? Choose wisely. Because a prudent wife, it tells us here, is
from the LORD. There are people that are joined together
just physically, emotionally, they're not joined in the Lord, and I can't see a
marriage making it in the world we're in today, because of all the options that
are presented 24 and 7, I can't see a marriage making it unless you're joined
in the Lord, the way this world is. Young guys, it has to be more than eye-candy, has to be more than
that. Beauty's only skin deep, there may
be a brawling, contentious woman under there, you'll know by the time you're on
the housetop [laughter]. Look, the LORD was offended, heart-broken,
when Israel constantly complained about him, 'You brought us out here to
die, we were in Egypt, we had leeks, we had garlic, we had fish, we had fleshpots,
you brought us out here to die.' And it tells us, the LORD was offended, his heart was broken, because they constantly complained when he
was trying to take care of them, so, there's something in that. You know, I, it's funny, Cathy, I want her approval,
I can finish up here Sunday, everybody's saying 'That was a great study,
that was a great study,' and if Cath
says 'You know, don't shake your hand with the change in your pocket,' everything
else is gone, everything everybody else said, gone. Women, you have a, ladies, moms, wives,
grandmas, you have an incredible responsibility, the hand the rocks the cradle
is what is said determines the history of mankind. And with this poor guy, you know, he's gone
from a drip in inside, to 'I'm going out in the rain, I'd rather be out in
the rain than with the drip inside, Chinese water torture,' and he goes out
on the rooftop, and evidently, she chases him out there, and then he finds the
bus Gus, and he's out of town now, he's in the wilderness. And again, you study this wilderness, he is
way out, he's way out, he's gone, he's in the wilderness. So, poor guy, pray for him, I don't know what
his name is, “It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a
contentious and an angry woman.” (verse 19) you could say 'on the
housetop.'
Riches Come With Wisdom, But The Foolish Spends It
Up
“There
is treasure to be desired and oil in
the dwelling of the wise; but a foolish man spendeth it up.” (verse 20) God has told us about that earlier in the
chapter, he blesses the wise, “but a foolish man spendeth it up.” he just wastes everything. Sometimes, you know, isn't it sad, you see
heavyweight champions of the world, or middleweight champions, or NVA players,
or people that were investors on Wall Street that were worth hundreds of
millions, and you see them broke, you see them in prison, you see people that
had everything, 'spendeth it up here.' There's no wisdom in that, it's foolishness. You think 'How could you have had that
much, and end up with nothing?' Must
have had a brawling wife.
Follow After Righteousness & Mercy, And You’ll
Get More Than That
“He
that followeth after righteousness and mercy findeth life, righteousness, and
honour.” (verse 21) look, “he that followeth after righteousness and mercy,” it's not difficult,
ok, it's not rocket science. It says
here, somebody who follows one thing finds more than what they're looking for,
is what is says. It says “He that
followeth after righteousness and mercy” what's right, and what's merciful
in this world, two good things really to long for. It says if you follow after those two things,
it doesn't say you find righteousness and mercy, it says what you find is life,
righteousness and honour. So if
you seek those two things, it says you find more than you're looking for.
Wisdom Always Gets The Victory
“A
wise man scaleth the city of the mighty, and casteth down the strength
of the confidence thereof.” (verse 22) it should be “the strength of his false confidence” is the idea. Wisdom
always has the victory. A wise man, and
there were many through the centuries that understood the tactics of warfare
and so forth, the wise man, understands how to get in, scales the city of the
mighty. 'he casts down the
strength of the false confidence of that person,' so, the wise man in
the Scripture is always the godly man, the false confidence is someone who is
confident in their own fortress.
Keep Your Mouth Shut, You’ll Stay Out Of Trouble
“Whoso
keepeth his mouth and his tongue keepeth his soul from troubles.” (verse
23) so it's not just keeping your mouth, it's keeping
your mouth and your tongue. You might
shut your mouth and go 'Mmmm, grrh' Now I remember my one son, it still breaks my heart, one time in his
life I called him an idiot, one time in his entire life. And he's bright, he's a gift from the Lord,
God's got his hand all over him. And I
wasn't even mad. We had bought a
Christmas tree, and you have to slide it out the fat end of the trunk, and he
was excited and opened up the other side and was trying to pull out the top and
all the branches were, I said 'Don't do that, you idiot,' I wasn't mad,
but it just came out so fast. I can't
bring that back. I would much rather be
able to say I lived my whole life and never said a single unkind word... “Whoso
keepeth his mouth and his tongue keepeth his soul from troubles.” (verse 23) when somebody understands the power there is in the tongue, to build up
somebody, to tear somebody down, he says if you can keep your mouth and tongue,
you keep your soul out of trouble. Amen
to that? There are very few times we
wish we had said something, most of the time we wish we hadn't said
something. And once it's gone, it's
gone. And trying to fix it is always a
nightmare. Isn't it? 'What did you say?' 'Ah, ah, I said, no I didn't say that, ah,
that's not what I meant,' my wife, I can't fool her, because she has a
whole other layer of discernment, 'What did you say?' 'I didn't say that,'
'You looked like you were saying that.' I'm done, 'I didn't look like that, no I
didn't, I didn't look like that, I don't look like that now, I'll never look
like that again,' hmmm.
Somebody Whose Proud, Arrogant And Critical Ends
Up Lonely
“Proud and haughty scorner is his name, who dealeth in proud wrath.”
(verse 24) somebody's
whose proud and arrogant and critical, “Proud and haughty scorner is name, who dealeth in proud wrath.” this is a person, that's his name, not
even Fred, Bruce, Sam, we don't know who he is, he doesn't have any friends,
everybody avoids him, and that's the way it's going to be, if that's, if that's
the way you are, proud and haughty, critic, that's who he is, he deals in proud
wrath, everybody stays away from him.
The Slothful, Lazy Person
“The
desire of the slothful killeth him; for his hands refuse to labour.” (verse 25) the desire of
the slothful, now we're back with the slothful, the lazy person again, it kills
him, for his hands refuse to labour, here's the rest of it, “He coveteth
greedily all the day long: but the
righteous giveth and spareth not.” (verse 26) But the righteous, in
contrast to that person “giveth and spareth not.” Not only, does he have from being diligent in
working, he's able to give to others. So, the desire of the slothful person, you know, it kills him, his hands
refuse to labour. It's interesting,
because I'm kind of addicted, I like these Alaska shows, like the weird family,
the last Alaskans, building in Alaska, then there's 'living below zero.' You look at all these guys living up there,
they're out in the middle of nowhere in Alaska, and they're all like 'If you
don't do this, now the winter's coming, you gotta shoot your moose, shoot your
bear now, you gotta catch your fish, if you don't fish now,’ they're cutting holes in the ice with the
chainsaw, ‘now when they're running, if you don't get them now, in the
winter, you're gonna run out of food,' and when I read this I think
of that, the lazy person, he might not do anything, but when the winter comes,
he's not gonna have a moose or a bear cut up in his freezer, he's gonna have
problems. And then you see the people
who are out there working, I was watching one family, brought back like this
whole truckload of fish, now they're all frozen by the time they get them back,
and then they strung them out in front
of the house, and then all these other people come and trade them oranges and you know, all this other stuff, and bread
and all this, and then they're saying 'there's
leftovers,' 'no you just take that, I
know you guys are...' I know you're
tired of listening to me, but in my mind I go to Alaska when I read these two
verses here. “The desire of the
slothful killeth him;” because he doesn't want to do anything, his hands refuse to
labour. I just love to
watch where these people are independent of everything we think we need to
live, and they kind of figure out a way to live off the land, to live, and it
says “he coveteth greedily all day long: 'but the righteous are different, they're able to give and spare
not.' (verse 26)
The Worship Of The Wicked, How God Views It
“The
sacrifice of the wicked is abomination: how much more, when he
bringeth it with a wicked mind.” (verse 27) so we're
at worship now. So, the sacrifice of the
wicked, we think of Eli's sons, Hophni and Phineas, you think of those in the
Old Testament, living at the Temple, offering sacrifices while they were in
sexual sin, taking advantage, and just have God strike them down dead, with the
strange fire in Leviticus chapter 11. It
says here, “The sacrifice of the wicked is abomination:” God's
not interested in you bringing, this is not about you paying him off. He's not a harlot, you can't pay God off,
just because you bring something, you're going to make him happy? Those are pagan gods, you bring bloody
sacrifices and you appease the pagan gods. Well this God wanted you to come with a lamb, he wanted you to realize,
for you and him to have fellowship, and that's what he wants, an innocent
substitute had to die in your place. He
wanted your heart to be broken, he wanted you to be touched with his love and
his grace, and he wanted to fellowship with you. And in every sacrifice he wanted you to look
forward to the coming of his Son Jesus Christ on the cross. It says in the Hebrew, you'll always read
when they burnt the sacrifice, it was a sweet savour before him. The Hebrew says “a savour of rest.” As God smelled the smoke of that lamb and
that sacrifice coming up, it was rest in his heart, because he knew one day the
Lamb of God was coming to take away the sin of the world. And all of that is turned into sacrilege when
somebody comes and thinks he's a big meany in the sky, and they can pay him off
with some kind of hamburger or something. He says 'that's an abomination, and how much more when that person
comes, he brings it with a wicked mind.'
Liars Are Inconsistent
Verse
28, “A false witness shall perish: but
the man that heareth speaketh constantly.” Liars are
inconsistent is the idea, the person that genuinely hears, his speech, what he
has to say is trustworthy, is constant. A false witness is going to perish. You read Deuteronomy chapter 19, verses 15 to 21, it will tell you
there, in context of being a false witness, that at a certain point, that false
witness is actually put to death because of what they're testifying, saying
it's wrong, God will not put up with it at all. [Comment: Does this apply in the
New Covenant? See Acts 5:1-11.] “A false witness shall perish:” Deuteronomy
19, verses 15 to 21, “but the man that heareth” whose heart is right, “speaketh constantly.” i.e.'his
speech is consistent.'
God Establishes The Way Of The Upright
“A
wicked man hardeneth his face: but as
for the upright, he directeth his way.” (verse 29) “A wicked man hardeneth his face” you know
people like that? They're so miserable,
that even when you try to say something nice to them, they go...you know those
people?--a hard face. “The wicked man
hardeneth his face:” I don't even want to see it, “but as for the
upright, he directeth his way.” “he”
should be a capital “H” in your Bible, he, the LORD, “but as for the
upright, He directeth his way.” “directeth” is in the King James, the
Hebrew says “He, the LORD, will establish his way.” So
the wicked man hardeneth his face, when you try to meet face to face with him,
try to reason with him, he just looks demon possessed, just hardens his
face. But it says “but the
upright, He, the LORD will establish his way.” That's wonderful for us to know. He doesn't always give us the two-year plan
or the five-year plan or the ten-year plan, but he'll establish our way, if we
please him, do what's right.
There Is No Wisdom, Understanding, Nor Counsel
Against The LORD
“There
is no wisdom nor understanding nor counsel against the LORD.” (verse 30) I
need to remember that, I need to remember that. Because I see these people in the news, Christians being picked on,
being run out of business, being sued, being threatened, I see them being
persecuted and martyred in other countries. Sometimes I see what's going on here, and I think 'What are you going
to do, wait till they destroy the businesses of a thousand Christian people
because they don't agree on a particular issue, cut me a break.' And then I need to remember 'Alright
Lord, before I get ulcers, “There is no wisdom nor understanding nor counsel
against you LORD.” You can ask Ahitophel about that. It says in the days of David, Ahitophel was
such a wise counselor, it was like hearing the oracle of God. But, when Ahitophel, angry because David
slept with his granddaughter, Bathsheba, turned against David, and determined
to kill David, which was not his place, his counsel turned to foolishness,
because it was against the LORD's
will, and he ended up taking his own life. Baalam, remember the story of Baalam? Balak hires Baalam, the children of Israel passing through the territory
of the Amorites and so forth, so Balak sends to Mesopotamia and hires this
famous soothsayer, sorcerer Baalam to come and to curse the children of Israel
for him. You know the deal, first his
people come to him and say 'He's offering you all this money,' he says, 'I
can't do it, they're God's people, I can't do it,' he said, 'the LORD won't let me do that.' And then they come back and they raise the
price, now Baalam's asking God, 'Can I go, can I go, can I go?' And then he finally breaks down, so it really
wasn't matter of principle, it was a matter of price. And of course, he's going, and he's going
across the bridge, his donkey stops, won't go any further, now he's kicking the
donkey, he's kicking the donkey, and it
says finally the donkey looks up and says 'Yo! Haven't I been a good donkey all these
years? Why are you beating me?' and
it says the LORD opens up Baalam's eyes and he
sees the angel of the LORD there, with his
sword drawn. And Baalam says to the
donkey, 'You're lucky that I'm seeing this, or I would have killed you.' I think 'What a stupid man, who would kill
a talking donkey, you know how much that animal was worth, he could have opened
up a show, are you kidding me.' That
just proves that the LORD takes away the wisdom of the
people who try to counsel against him. So finally the angel moves and he goes forward, and Balak pays him to
try to curse the children of Israel, it says the Spirit of the LORD comes on him, and he says 'How
lovely are thy tents of Jacob, there is no iniquity found in thee.' And he looks at the children of Israel, and
says, 'How I want to die the death of the righteous.' You think of Athaliah, she kills everybody of
the royal throne of David, doesn't know there is a little baby of David's line
still alive, and how she ends up just getting killed. It just says here, and history proves it, and
I need to remember it, “There is no wisdom nor understanding nor counsel
against the LORD.” (verse 30) In
fact, he moves on, he says, realize this “The horse is prepared against
the day of battle: but safety is of the LORD.” (verse 31) ask Pharaoh, you can go to Exodus
15, 'I will sing unto the LORD, he has triumphed gloriously,
the horse and rider thrown into the sea,' Pharaoh gone, horses gone,
everything gone [actually God left Pharaoh alive so he could go back to Egypt,
embarrassed beyond measure. Historically, this Pharaoh lived, but his entire army was destroyed.] You know, “There is no wisdom nor
understanding nor counsel” or is there anything that stands against the LORD.’ Even if you have an army, greatest army in
the world, filled with horses and so forth, the horse may be prepared against
the day of battle, but it says ‘safety is in the LORD.’ And
we sing the song, ‘The battle belongs to the Lord.’
related
links:
How
to give wisely, for a list of some qualified organizations, see http://www.unityinchrist.com/missionstatement.htm and http://www.unityinchrist.com/evangelism/Short-TermMissions.htm
Woman
and men are made differently, see http://www.HOWMARRIAGEWORKS.com
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